12 Signs That Mean You Are Finally Ready to Enter a New Relationship Again

A breakup from a romantic relationship you thought would last “forever” is known to take a toll on you – physically, emotionally, and mentally. It is never easy, and it is normal to be sad and hurt. The breakup is actually perceived by the body as a stressor. Your body won’t know if it comes in the form of a broken heart or a lion chasing you. It will definitely take some getting used to, more so getting back on the dating horse. Just find comfort in the fact that time lets you heal and life goes on. Sooner or later, you’ll find yourself ready for a new relationship and longing for a new partner.

Are you finally ready for a new relationship? Here are the 12 signs that say yes:

1. You know what you are looking for and you want to go after it

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A person’s gut feeling is very powerful. You’ll be able to feel what your heart is saying and for some reason, it feels as though you should follow its call. When you are ready for a new relationship, you’ll “know” what you are looking for. This means that you’ve added your previous relationship experience to your life lessons. You are already over the phase where you blame your ex-lover, regret the time you thought you wasted on him or her, or lash out at them. The bottom line is now you are just grateful you got to be part of their lives.

This mentality can be achieved once time has helped you with your healing journey. The feeling will definitely be empowering and amazing – a big jump from the wreck that you are when you first broke up.

With the lessons you learned from your previous relationship, you will have an idea of what you want out of your future partner. Not to mention, you’ll also be aware of your mistakes and avoid it at all costs when you enter a new relationship.

2. You realize you won’t have to settle for conditional love

When you are ready for a new relationship, you will feel strongly about settling for less. You might have experienced a lot of troubles in the past such as putting in all the work in the relationship. Maybe your ex-lover thinks that a date with you is such a chore and you have to adjust your schedule based on his preference every time. On the other hand, you may have also experienced getting ignored, being disrespected, or cheated on. That is enough to make you insane.

But as with all things in life, we can start with a clean slate. You are ready if you realize that you deserve the same amount of effort, love, attention that you give. When that time comes, make it count and do not settle for conditional love.

3. You are okay being single

We feel like this is a simple thing that says a lot. If you are okay being single, then it means you really enjoyed your time alone or with your friends. The bad experience from the past didn’t stop you from having fun, being happy, and living life.

You don’t need to force a romantic relationship right away. But this right here says you are ready for a new relationship! Just in case you need help with flirting, you should also check out Pick Up Artist Techniques when Texting a Woman. 

4. You are actually excited

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There comes a phase in our lives wherein we don’t want to mingle with anyone after a breakup. You better take note, though, if the phase has ended. Being excited about the future and the possibility of falling in love means you are ready for a new relationship. You no longer dread the thought of holding hands with another person, and you are just looking forward to who your next kiss could be with!

Dating is supposed to be fun, exciting, and fulfilling. It shouldn’t be a reminder of something hurtful or sad. While every relationship is bound to experience a “down” moment at some time, you’d feel as if you are ready to embrace that risk with open arms. Do you think not? Determine whether your heart acknowledges that you are still willing to get hurt by the person you’ll love.

5. You want to date not because you are just trying to fill a void

A lot of individuals date right after their breakup and end up with a rebound. This one definitely counts as a “relationship.” However, you need to ask yourself if it is really one when you know it’s not going to be real from the get-go.

Sooner or later, you will be slapped with the realization that you shouldn’t be with someone just to fill the emptiness in your heart.

6. You want to be a better partner

Once you’ve taken all your previous experiences and mistakes into account, then you’d know what to do the next time around. You are ready for a new relationship when you want to be a better partner.

Some of the realizations include: This is not the time to play around. You don’t need to put up a facade, get crazy, or act foolishly. What will make this new relationship successful? You know better, and you are ready to be more responsible for your actions and feelings. You’ve come a long way, and it is only right to give your lover what he or she deserves.

7. You are available

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This is perhaps one of the most obvious signs as to when you are ready for a new relationship. You can’t date if you don’t have the time or if you are not willing to put in the extra effort. Are you too tied up with work or do you think you can handle it when you bring in dating to the mix? Assess your situation and think about your desire.

If you are available, then you might as well start looking now.

8. You know how to love yourself

A breakup can really shake us to the core. The silver lining is that you will be forced to look within and know yourself. Time alone sounds scary, but it can be liberating and empowering too. In the end, to each his own.

You are the only one who knows the real you, and you have the power to make yourself happy. Don’t worry about the things you’ll discover along the way. The journey of self-learning and self-love is long but it’s worth it. You are bound to accept everything there is about you.

If you know how to love yourself, then you’ll be okay. You are ready for a new relationship!

9. You are hung up on your ex

It’s a bad idea to enter a new romantic relationship when all you could think about is your ex. There’s a chance that you will channel the pent-up resentment, anger, or sadness to your new lover. If you still haven’t forgiven him or her, or if you can’t get over him or her, that may be an indication that you are not yet ready to move forward.

You first need to accept the reality, and where you are right now. Once you are done with that, only then can you make real change. Life is too short to waste your and another person’s time. Don’t you think so?

Accept that your story is over before fooling yourself that you are ready for a new relationship.

10. You are willing to take a risk and be vulnerable

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What about starting a new romantic chapter of your life? The journey won’t really be smooth-sailing, but if you are willing to take a risk, then you might as well give it a try. A famous C.S. Lewis quote says:

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”

There is uncertainty in everything, but that’s the beauty of it. You get to face it and evolve into something wonderful. By being vulnerable, you accept personal responsibility and bring matters of love into your own hands.

11. You are attracted to someone

If you are physically and emotionally attracted to someone, that is a good sign. That means you are almost ready for a new relationship. This is not something shallow, because there is a deeper meaning behind it.

12. You own your energy

You already know what you deserve so you don’t have to settle for less. If you own your energy, you’ll be more confident in your pursuit of love. In addition, you won’t have a hard time allowing him or her into your life.

Own your energy and take pride in yourself. You know your worth. There is no doubt that you’ll be able to attract your future partner who honors, respects, and loves you fully. If we are talking about energy in literal terms, then you need to look at the vibrational match. It would feel something different and special with your future partner. Energy doesn’t lie since it comes from within. Make sure to pay attention to it!

How about you? Are you ready for a new relationship? Tell us your story in the comments section!