is an adult dating site for adults looking to satisfy their unusual and kinky sexual fetishes, including BDS and bondage! Its unique platform offers users the opportunity to connect and bond with other members through alternative forms of sexual relationships. Whether you’re interested in a physical relationship or simply want to share explicit content with other BDSM enthusiasts, has exactly what you need – a large and active network of real men and women who love alternative sex and want to meet others just like them.

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More than 1 million members

This is no typical dating site. In fact, really isn’t about finding matches and going out on classic dates at all. Instead, what you will find here is a large community of BDSM lovers who want to share their extreme photos, videos and wild experiences with you! It doesn’t matter if you’re a lifelong fetish sex pro or just curious about the scene, promises to be one hell of ride! is here to check out all of’s features, benefits, prices, pros and cons, and give you our honest assessment of where this adult dating site stands in terms of overall quality.

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The Experience

Joining is a process that may look easy at first but can take several minutes to complete. It consists of five steps with easy questions combined with lengthy descriptions to write about yourself (read’s Writing Ideas for inspiration). Every answer must be filled in order to create your free account. Users can choose to sign up as a man, woman, couple or group. Additional personal details you’ll need to provide are sexual orientation, body type, age, race, marital status and role. Finally, verify your email address and you’re done!

Navigating the member’s interface can be nerve-wracking at first. It basically looks like a jumbled mess of profiles, instant messages, chat rooms, magazines, blogs and a wide selection of BDSM adult videos. It’s not that bad (we’ve seen worse), but it does take some getting used to. offers several interesting tools for contacting members. Chatting with live models, for example, is free. When you find a profile you like, add it to your Hotlist. You can also use the site’s Cupid tool to discover what profiles you’re matched with and also check out the New Member Matches feature. Sadly, however, your free account is very limited, and most of the features are only available for premium members.

There are two types of premium memberships: Gold and Silver.

The Gold membership gives you full access to blogs, groups and magazines, lets you view large photos and gives you access to contact information of the members in your network. We suggest getting the 3-month Gold Membership at $14.99 per month. It comes with one extra month for free and gives you access to all the special perks: hot or not, testimonials, blings and my kinks.

Free Features

  • Sign up
  • Upload photo
  • Enter chat rooms
  • Add to hotlist
  • Add to friends
  • Hot or not
  • Search
  • Live webcams

Paid Features

  • View profiles and contact members
  • Read and send messages
  • Top of search list
  • Contact new members first
  • Watch members’ live and recorded intros
  • Get access to magazines, blogs and group features
  • 24/7 telephone support
  • Virtual gifts

The Conclusion

You won’t find many adult dating sites like – of that you can be sure! How many hook up sites do you know that function as worldwide networks for BDSM and fetish sex lovers? The features presented on are unique and the premium memberships are conveniently priced. Members’ personal safety and confidential information are taken very seriously. Harassment, trolling, bullying and underage users are strictly prohibited. aims to create the perfect alternative dating experience with as few hassles and problems as possible. Sign up today and you’ll never look back!